A quarter of a century ago, reading was a habit that implied proactivity on the part of the reader: someone who was interested in a particular topic usually went to the library, bookstore, or antique shop to find a few proper volumes suited to the desired topic, and studied them carefully, patiently and meticulously. Reading… Read More In Search Of Lost Discipline
If you read this, then you personally or professionally know me pretty well, and it doesn’t matter if we talk in English, Romanian or Italian. I just wrote it in English because I know you’ll understand it. I don’t usually like to talk about my problems (or publicly express my emotions about them). Still, I… Read More How It Feels to Live With a Chronic Tooth Infection
Customize! Many of us live under the impression that there are certain “types of people” that we get along better with and others that we don’t get along with. But, in fact, we like those who are like us or those who are as we wish we were. Precisely for this reason, the objectivity of… Read More How to Speak Everyone’s Language
When you have a team of people working in task-oriented activities, such as specific projects requiring phases and deadlines, it’s essential to use a few necessary tools. Intrinsic motivation is the one that makes people act on their own initiative. It makes them happy and proud to be working on a particular project or for… Read More The Difference Between Intrinsic and Extrinsic Motivation
Motto: “Love can grow when you give and diminish when you keep it to yourself.” Which would be the alternatives to the unshared expectations that linger in the depth of our subconscious? First, of course, we can set contractual rules. It’s just that, when it comes to rules, it seems that those who what to… Read More 10 Rules I Suggest in order for A Love Relationship to Work
DO: Respect the other’s boundaries; The other is not always available to receive the manifestation of your joy. Express your joy in a manner appropriate to the context and your role. DO NOT: Enjoy another’s mishappening; Mistake joy for happiness; Hurt yourself while you feel joy. There’s also a film recommendation that will… Read More DOs and DON’Ts about Joy
DO: Set boundaries/limits; Respect and experience your emotion; Search/source for secure bases; For example, it is helpful to call someone who understands your sadness or to look for an environment that creates security. Sadness can happen to you; it is not a choice. However, being alone with sadness is a choice; Creatively express the emotion.… Read More DOs and DON’Ts about SADNESS
DO: It is essential to get in contact with yourself before you express anger; Express your anger when it is produced, not when it becomes too much. Some people have the tendency to delay expressing anger, which can lead to collecting stamps to be redeemed for an outlash; It is essential to put emotion into… Read More DOs and DON’Ts about Anger
FEAR (about known things: frică) / APPREHENSION (about unknown things: teamă) DO: Source for a protective environment; The existence of a secure base is essential. The primary need in the state of fear is protection. The reason, search for information, and escape contamination. DO NOT: Discount/ignore this emotion; Sabotage yourself by searching for a… Read More DOs and DON’Ts about Fear and Apprehension
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