The films are relevant to understand both the first period of communism (1947-1996) from Romania’s past and the anocracy period (1996-2019) before entering the second communism period (2020-present). 1. Farewell, Comrades! On November 14th, 2011, I participated in the screening of the first episode of the historical TV documentary from the miniseries “Farewell, Comrades!”.… Read More Debug Your Mind about the Romanian Past
The 3rd of July is the international “Compliment Your Mirror” Day. Motto: “What is it about me that attracts people?” I am sure, without a doubt, that any person has asked this question at least once in their life. Well, I just had an insight based on a dream. Honestly, I don’t believe in paying… Read More Imagined Mirrors of the Absolute
CraftLift is a program created by joining the efforts of entrepreneurs, freelancers, and leaders in support of Romanian pupils who are looking forward to making a meaningful contribution by supporting a better future for adolescents who have already proven their dedication to performance. I, Marcus Victor Grant, am the founder of this program I have… Read More Contribute Now to Sustain the CraftLift program
Motto: “The place where you always take from and never put back will soon be empty.” Romanian Proverb The “holes” theory I have a theory. Every man has certain “holes” or “hollows” or “empty spaces” their the soul, some basic necessities that must be filled with love. For example, there is a hole that must… Read More To Have and to Hold
Nothing can, and no one has the right to limit the human spirit and its inner strength, which each person strengthens on the bricks of their gifts. God lends a hand to every person, no matter the path they are on. A person needs to see in themselves everything they can and believe that they… Read More On the Creative Vision
I humorously remember that when I was in high school, although I didn’t know any NLP, I adored playing with modal operators. Unfortunariend of mine, those who didn’t share my enthusiasm, would always find a reply that would kill my theoretical argumentation. One day, I was explaining to someone how to go from “threat” to… Read More The Motivational Conflict
Reality is structured into dimensions. Each person perceives as much as their vision does. The perspective represents the angle of viewing a particular object (problem, situation, person, concept, etc.) from a specific dimension, positioned in a certain way concerning the other dimensions. Myopic perspective is a frequent mistake, directly proportional to groupthink. It involves looking… Read More On the Reference System and Perspectives
A person with a well-cared-for personal brand knows they can trust themselves and will ask for the same thing from others. The same goes for those who refer to persuasion as an art; trust that the items set at the beginning of the communication will be accomplished. A few important things should be noted here.… Read More What Does Trust Mean?
Motto: “Personality is not who we are but what we do.” L. Michael Hall Definition Hall & Bodenhamer (2005) and Woodmall (1988) are still considering between metaprograms and Jung’s classical concepts: Sensing / Intuition (metaprogram no. 2, Epistemological), introversion/extraversion (metaprogram no. 26, Rejuvenation), judging/perceiving (metaprogram no. 37, adaption), which according to the correspondence analyses… Read More Meta-types
Metaprograms, by definition, are dynamic and not static. They are dynamic in several forms: They are found in different combinations from individual to individual, and the extent to which this happens varies over time; they are found in different cultural characteristics from civilization to civilization, and the extent to which this happens varies over time, as… Read More The Dynamics of Metaprograms
Metaprograms, on which I wrote an introductory article, are unconscious filters of human perception, according to which we sort information, and can be found deep in the subconscious. They show us how we prefer to think, feel and communicate, offering a set of criteria for sorting and organizing information. By finding ways to elicit these criteria,… Read More What Do Knowing and Understanding Metaprograms Help Us With?
There were three dwarves Living in the hazelnut forest, There comes the hoopoe and says: “Symptomatically, the dilemmatic idiosyncrasy is reverberating in an attenuating manner. Its protoharmonic abstruse echoes behind the semi-transcendence and dissonance of the incandescent medieval-like obscurantism, encapsulating the crepuscular syncretic and allusively metempsychotic vein of the alchemic transmigration towards the inner… Read More Metaprograms, The Fundamental Bricks of Personality
At one point, a woman comes to an ophthalmic center and buys a pair of eyeglasses for her husband. Then, two weeks later, she returns and says: “Thank you, they are no help; he still doesn’t see things as I want him to!” Probably many of you know the phrase, “Before you take the speck… Read More The Specks in Other People’s Eyes Have Different Colours for Each
Questions to ask to identify advantages: 1. What does this behavior bring to me? 2. What is essential for me about this behavior? 3. What do I get by doing this? 4. What is the positive intention behind this behavior? 5. And if I am to benefit from it, what else is brought to my… Read More Questions to Ask in order to Assess Certain Behavior
An unclear contract underlies victimization. Before being a social and even a sociological position, victimization is a psychological position that must be understood. In the dramatic triangle of the transactional analysis, the victim feels helpless, powerless (whether he/she really is or imagines that), waiting for a savior, and (possibly) screams from the top of their… Read More The Psychological Contract in Working Relationships
Once upon a time, as many other times back then, there was a little puppy named Fido. He was small, but he was going to grow up fast. That’s why he and other puppies were sent to a particular school, where he would learn how to behave to become better friends and supporters of people.… Read More The Puppy School
Schema Focused Therapy (SFT) is an integrative, holistic approach that considers that most, if not all, psychiatric issues have their roots în traumas which activate” life traps” (maladaptive schemas). When it reaches a certain statistical threshold, each schema becomes active (manifest) în a client’s life. If it reaches a superior threshold, it becomes severe and… Read More Maladaptive Schemas & Modes
The maladaptive modes from Schema Focused Therapy are inadvertent, consistent patterns of manifestation of the schemas, which are unconscious patterns of pathological thinking. Aside from the maladaptive modes, there are healthy modes. In working with the clients to support them in understanding the characteristics of each mode, I concluded that it is a good idea… Read More Films Recommended for Understanding Modes in Schema Focused Therapy
Hello! I started writing about an exciting topic: which values are NOT needed for success … against popular beliefs that some might have. I’m doing a little recap of the first part, which you can read here. 1. Not to be laughed at. 2. The fear of making mistakes. 3. The fear of criticism. 4.… Read More 10 Things I Do Not Think Are Important for One’s Success in Life. Part II
Every January much is written about personal development and meeting one’s goals: what to do, how to do it, and how to color your lists of resolutions. After two months of the year, everyone has returned to their senses: those who have written down resolutions to forget them have returned to their favorite activities, and… Read More 10 Things I Do Not Think Are Important for One’s Success in Life. Part I.
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